DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE giving birth to our second child ten months ago, my wife has lost all interest in our sex life.
I’m 30 and she’s 29. We have been together for five years, very happily. After our three-year-old son was born our sex life got back to normal after a month or so.
Our second child wasn’t planned and she had a difficult pregnancy and birth. I did everything I could to help out with our son and take care of the house.
She is a beautiful woman but has never been confident about her body. I try to help her see herself the way I do but nothing has worked. I just want the girl I fell in love with back as well as the sex life we once enjoyed.
I OFTEN hear from people who are worried the way they, or their partner, enjoys sex isn’t normal.
Nothing is wrong between a couple as long as they both enjoy it, but one person’s fancy can horrify the other.
My leaflet Kinky Sex Worries? can help you find a compromise.
Caught my girl in bed with another man… then he did something I didn’t expect
SEX WITH SISTER
I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
My girl’s wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I’m disgusted with myself
My brother-in-law is my daughter’s real father… and my husband has no idea
More, more, more!
Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
Family are furious over my hot sex with brother’s sister in law
I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
I’ve been bedding my ‘uncle’ and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
I had hot sex at Glastonbury… but I was the 20th guy she’d bedded that weekend
I’m having sex with my girlfriend’s bestie… who’s also dating my best mate
DEIDRE SAYS: Having two pregnancies and births within a couple of years is exhausting and it can take a while for sex drive to return.
Be patient, enjoy being physically close without pressuring her to have intercourse. There are other ways to share sexual pleasure.
My e-leaflet on Sex Problems After A Baby will help you survive this demanding phase.
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